• identify the real issues and deal with them
• understand yourself and your partner more
• be aware of the underlying dynamics of relating
• get clearer about continuing the relationship or not
• communicate more clearly
• gain greater clarity
• take appropriate action
• and more ...

Everyone experiences challenges in relationship.  One of the biggest steps is making a clear decision to address the issues. 

Intention is important. Did you explore your intention for your relationship? Have you discussed with each other what you want your relationship to be about?  There is the standard form of relationship which has a traditional setup. Then there is conscious relationship where there is an intention to grow together, to support each other to grow. In 'standard' relationship, there is not much space for 'stuff' to come up. It's something that 'shouldn't be happening'. In a conscious relationship, when 'stuff' comes up, it can even be welcomed because you can use it for the opportunity that it is - to grow in love and awareness.

When there are difficulties in relationship, the focus can tend to be more on the other's behaviour. Although this behaviour is taken into account, you will be encouraged to bring more focus to what is going on in you - your own feelings, thoughts and behaviour.

In sessions, you are supported to melt through patterns that create tension and conflict, allowing deeper love to emerge in your life. There are many factors involved in relationship as you know. For example, there is often a clash of personality type and when this is explored, a lot of judgment and resentment can dissolve.  Sometimes it may be helpful to look at influences from your original family situation on your current relationship situation. Sometimes completion with a previous partner may be needed to free the way for a current relationship.  It is also important to have a balance of giving and receiving.

Book an initial meeting to discuss your particular situation and to find out how you can benefit from this approach - or get in touch for more information. With relationship, I have found it more effective to work with individuals for much of the process - and some sessions together.